Sunday, October 25, 2009

The guy i left him he suicide and now he is in hospital!!!?

When i left him he treat me to kill me first and himself. he found my new apartment and show up many times. i am so scare now because i dont trust him . on Monday he called me and cried and said he took lots of sleeping pills and he is very depress and i can not stand without you and ...GOOD BYE.
his sister called 911 and took him to hospital. he is alive but
my question is how long he stays in hosptila? does he get help? what do they do to him? when he get out of there is it possible to harm me! should i talk to counseler over the hospital and tell them i scares of him! he treat me and will kill me. what if he showed up again in front of my door...What if he wanted to kill me but instead he suicide!! i am so worry after they release him!! please advice me.
Answer:
They might treat him with a therapist, if he seems unstable, if stabel then they might just let him go. Talk to someone, like a family memeber of his and tell them how he needs a therapist or some kinda professional help. And might wana have a friend with you if he gets out, not a guy cuz if he sees a guy he might go nuts. Just make sure someone just to watch out for you and to call help in case something happens.
GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AND A GUN. MOVE AND DON'T TELL HIM, CHANGE YOUR NUMBERS!

You should be able to get a TRO (restraining order) right away.

Move in with a friend or someone for a while if you have to.

PS- Do NOT communicate with him or see him in any fashion whatsoever.
That's a shame.
hmm
im not really sure how to "advice" you.
If the haircut in your avatar is any indication, you thrive on anything "emo" and this takes the cake. Your entire identity probably revolves around things like this. Deep down, you're probably enjoying the drama. What fun would being an emo girl be if you didn't find psychotic boyfriends?
He must care very very deeply about you that he will take his own pathetic life to full fill his needs
Say you f***ing suck man.
Get an restraining order from the police. And get an education.
DON'T ASK ME ASK THE HOSPITAL
You need a restraining order...a cop, not an counselor
your grammer killed him
he'll probably stay there for about a week, but if theyre gonna make him do like, mental testing, and stuff like that, who knows.
Well he is in the hospital that's a good start for him to get help. Make a police report about his threats. Get a restraining order if you're really afraid he'll try to harm u.
if someone threatens to kill you, talk to the police
simple get a protection order, and if he comes anywhere near you call the police. oh and get good locks and a baseball bat. hes obviously trying to control the situation and you with violence do NOT play his game.
talk to the police, tell them your situation, they might watch over your apartment or something to protect you when he gets out. but yes the will try to help him, he will probably end up in a psyciatric ward for the suicide attempt, but you need to talk to the police because he will get out eventually
not only the councilor ,but the police men as ,that young man is very ill mentally and you need to be protected from him when he says he is going to do things to you=good luck with this
You need to get a restraining order against him while he is in the hospital.
yeah suicide is when he is dead, he is what is it called... depressed. just put him a on a 24/7 suicide watch and move to another state or country, and if that aint possible, my friend is a bodyguard, but he is in NYC so, chances you living there is 1/50 but anyways get a room mate or some thing, or make your stuff private so you can't find you. i agree with the 1st answer, restaining order and a weapon, not a gun, maybe a katana, a gun you need a permit and stuff, and its pretty expensive, and learn martial arts
call the police and file a report.
hey isnt this like that sean kingston song called beautiful girls.
ITS TRUE!!!!

You're way too beautiful girl
That's why it'll never work
You'll have me suicidal, suicidal
When you say it's over
Damn all these beautiful girls
They only wanna do your dirt
They'll have you suicidal, suicidal
When they say it's over
He will stay in the hospital until he's recovered from the meds and is in good physical health. They will want him to see a mental health professional, either there or at another hospital.

You need to get a protective order against him and if he shows up at your door, don't let him in and call 911.
Your best bet is to go to the police and ask them what you should do and what you can do to protect yourself. Every hospital is different but my sister's ex (her baby's father) two weeks ago hung himself and his father caught him time and cut the rope. He was in the hospital for two days and in the mental ward for three days. They didn't put him on meds or nothing, we have always been afraid for her because he is totally disturbed and the hospital didn't help at all. So my point is to go the law and see what you can do.
YOU ARE IN SERIOUS DANGER!
You need to go to the police and have them put a restraining order on him. It will say he may not come within a certain number of yards from you. This does not necessarily keep you safe, however. You need to either put NEW LOCKS on you apartment door or (even safer) move without telling him where. YOU NEED TO LEAVE TOWN AND POSSIBLY START FRESH ELSEWHERE.
GET HELP FROM A CRISIS CENTER/BATTERED WOMEN'S SHELTER OR OTHER ORGANIZATION.
YOU ARE IN DANGER...ACT NOW TO SAVE YOURSELF!
What a looser. Call the police immediately and report him. Don't even finish reading this, call now!
well love this is a very serious subject. i mean it all comes down to the fact if you LOVE HIM! Now i mean love who he is, not now after his breakdown. That would just be out of pity. He is obviously dangerous.
1. move out of state- is he that obsessed over u where he would find you instate or out?
2. Get a restraining order on his ***!- that u should already have done.
3. get a mace spray or tazer- protects you and subdues the guy without killing him.

thats all i got as of right now. you just need to tell yourself how bad do you want IN or OUT of this relationship.
Let the police know that .
Change your address and your numbers and don't communicate with him.
hellooo you are in trouble. if you have deserted that boy then you have to suffer but if not then you should contact some good doctor and get the boy treated well with the help of his family members. He has taken things to his heart try to understand this.

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